Gathering

So we've been thinking. We are looking for this thing called community. Not commodity, not buzz words, but community, family, "life-together"-ness.

We are looking to get into a place not so much structured, but definitely orderly.

How does one transition from a tradition based on the "3 songs and a sermon" format that has dominated the Christian culture for so long to a "gathering" mentality that makes room for every follower to be used by the Holy Spirit in the meeting time?